Saturday, November 27, 2010


Installment 28 → What if you were pregnant or got someone pregnant, what would you do?

   Seeing as it would be quite impossible without serious medical intervention for me to get pregnant I will focus on the second half of this question. First of all I would not be in this situation unless it was someone I cared a great deal for. I am not a one night stand or love em and leave em kind of guy. At this stage in my life I do want children so this news would thrill me to no end. I would hope that the mother of said child would want to marry me. If she didn't for what ever reason I would still stand by her and give any and all support I could. Not only through the pregnancy and birth but throughout the child's whole life. A child needs their father. If for some reason the mother of said child did not want me in the child's life I would endeavor to change her mind while respecting her wishes and offering financial support. One of my long term goals is to have a wife & kids, a happy marriage, a close family, and a happy home.

Well that seems a bit short but I think it about covers my thoughts on the matter. Take care of yourselves and have an awesome day!


  1. I liked your thoughts on this! A breath of fresh air in a world where I see so many deadbeat fathers/ father figures.

  2. Well I grew up with a sorry excuse for a father but at least I still had a male influence in my life. Not that everything he did was bad, there were some good times. If nothing else he showed me what NOT to do. Personally I can't believe anyone could father a child and just not care about them. That is part of you in that tiny person. Its your flesh and blood! How can anyone walk away from that or worse abuse it. It boggles the mind.